It sucks that my family lies about important things to get my attention, but at least they're really bad at it.
Like my sister getting married...in a month...but the date isn't set yet...and it wasn't mentioned to who...ok. That sounds real.
Then they wonder why I avoid the hell out of them.
Idk maybe because I don't want to get involved in miserable amounts of unnecessary and absurd drama
A few weeks before that, I was messaged about my cat being sick with literally no details provided. For all I know they could have been lying about that too. I love my shitty gaslighting family.
The best part is, the lies started once I got a good job. When I was literally dumpster diving for food, nobody gave a shit about bothering me.
My ex didn't give a shit about paying me money they owed me until 2 years later, when I had a high-paying apprenticeship. They didn't really care when I was homeless though. No wonder I stayed in that relationship, since they're the same as my garbage family.
And before that, during Christmas break...being contacted by my sister about my mom being hospitalized, no details on with what, no messages, then a week later my mom is abruptly fine and nobody has any information on what was going on. If I sound paranoid it's because of shit like this. Absolute garbage people.