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regrets, gender stuff (-/+)
y'know, I wonder how different i'd be if i had come out around when i first started questioning?
I'd be a whole 10 years ahead of where I am today
but then again i might not know the same people I do today... idk
regrets, gender stuff (-/+)
@kungtotte yeah, i always end up at this point when I do have these thoughts
regrets, gender stuff (-/+)
@azushark i've had similar thoughts (though only 5 years in my case)... i dated someone in high school who ended up being agender! so i had a chance to find out much sooner, but i didn't
another angle to consider is that as bad as things still are, now really is one of the best times to find out... people are more accepting now than even 10 years ago. it's not 100% clear that my life would be better if i had come out sooner