honestly the way ive gone about my transition is kinda all over the place
came out in late 2014, started seeing a psychiatrist in early 2015, wearing more feminine clothing after i graduated high school that year...
didnt get to start hrt until Feb. 2016 because psychiatrist was gatekeepy as fuck
had orchiectomy (so i could stop taking spiro and because I wasnt sure on vaginoplasty yet) done June 2018
and here i am now, Feb. 2019