@budsofstone I did think about how this would get interesting with intersex people. I started writing in options but quickly ran into the issue of "there's so many options"
I didn't like using the term "opposite" either because it implies a binary, so I threw it in quotes.
I considered simply using "different" instead of "opposite" and I don't know why I didn't do that.
@h3mmy there are so many options, and most intersex people feel different from each other about gender and sex. i would definitely would have a different experience if my asab was different. but i think my gender would end up being about the same.