NHS
Turns out the 2 year wait for your 2nd referral is enough time for them to lose your 1st referral, shrug, and just not refer you without telling you.
NHS
I was only able to attend the meeting in which they told me they'd lost my referral because a friend of mine happened to know the http://nhsattend.vc url for the institution. They'd also forgot to send me the appointment link.
NHS
I am so. fucking. fed. up. with the NHS consistently and predictably failing me on all fronts.