some drama
very tl;dr but
*joined a discord server for queer chronically ill/disabled people
*it's very new, so the mods are taking suggestions
*I say, "since it was mentioned, are we interested in having a NSFW channel"
it really had been mentioned earlier btw!
*first person to reply says, "in my experience, I think it would be prudent"
...wtf???
idk how many servers this rando has been apart of but almost every singe server *I'm* in has a NSFW channel without being judgmental about it???
re: some drama
thankfully everyone else chimed in to be like
"well we could have an opt-in, you can mute the channel, and I really appreciate when people mention disability with sex!"
so 1st rando person basically got blasted YGO Exodia style
but what a weird fucking moment to remember there are queers like that who just...miss the whole point like that....
