I think the reason I'm fine with the iPhone notch but don't like the smaller notches on Android phones is because of the curves.
Every rounded corner on the iPhone (the notch and the corners of the screen" are the sound radius, but with pretty much every Android phone is just like "idk make it smaller!"
Like, the Pixel 3 XL has like 4 different curve sizes. The P30 Pro has really wide, sweeping corners but the curve of the notch is so tight and goes to a straight line on the sides