regrets, gender stuff (-/+)
@azushark i've had similar thoughts (though only 5 years in my case)... i dated someone in high school who ended up being agender! so i had a chance to find out much sooner, but i didn't
another angle to consider is that as bad as things still are, now really is one of the best times to find out... people are more accepting now than even 10 years ago. it's not 100% clear that my life would be better if i had come out sooner