gender stuff
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does this make any sense?
i’m like, intellectually/ideologically non-binary
like, i really don’t care if people use he/him or they/them but intellectually i feel like he/him is (usually) reinforcing a gender binary that is at best out dated but it’s not like a gender euphoria/dysphoria thing or anything. i’m a man but based on ideology alone don’t feel super comfortable with all aspects of that
also, i don’t want to ever be associated with THOSE cis males
re: gender stuff
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i guess i’m seeking opinions (ideally from nb people but trans people in general pls share thoughts)
is this “enough” (quotes because i don’t mean that with all the baggage that word can have for trans individuals) for me to adopt a nb label or should i stick to he/him since that’s technically an accurate representation of my gender?
re: gender stuff
@TheIronFox I'm just a rando queer on the internet, but I say that is a perfectly valid feeling to have & as good a reason as any to change pronouns. If you're looking for labels, have you looked into any of the demi-genders? Also, Canton Winer on the birdsite is doing emergent work on "gender detachment" & might be worth a follow even if you're not particularly ace.
