@pop I dunno, I enjoyed making it, and at least one person seemed to really enjoy reading it, so I consider the meme a success.

The trouble with identity words is that if your definition is too narrow it'll exclude/invalidate someone. And what does it matter anyway? Why do we need a unified theory of what the heck gender is? Isn't it enough to go with a label that works for us (or no labels) and enjoy that?