What bothers me about Frog and Toad is that the birds are clearly allistic (not autistic), and the lessons that Frog and Toad learn are often about how to meet allistic expectations

After the birds learn what Frog and Toad are doing with the cookies, they say (repeatedly) things like "I love cookies"

Do they ask for the cookies? No. Do they explain how they can help Frog and Toad with the cookies? Not in a direct way, only through implications.

Eventually, Frog says, "I know what we can do!" — and finally realizes that they can give the cookies to the birds

This is the double empathy problem for autistic people: realizing how allistic people communicate about their needs and offers, and conforming to that.

It's not even clear about how to interpret allistic signals and navigating allistic communication/interpretations. It's just showing that autistic people have to figure it out ourselves.

This is wrong. The solution to the double empathy problem is not to learn how allistic people communicate or how to interpret allistic communication, but for both autistic and allistic people to learn how each other communicate and to meet in the middle.

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I'll say it again for the people at the back.

Universal Basic Income is not welfare. UBI is de-risking living.

That matters to poor people

But that also matters to rich people. You want to leave your rich husband, but he'll sue you into the ground? UBI has your back until your lawyers come through.

You're a rich white guy at Big Corp who wants to leave to pursue a business idea. UBI has your back for that period of uncertain cashflow.

UBI is a powerful solution to two issues in the economy: the ridiculous inequality of wealth, and the cartels which dominate most areas of the economy and new entrants face too much risk.

Transmisogyny 

The thing that a lot of cis people don't get about cis men playing trans women in media, is that it's not just offensive because they're stealing the role from a trans woman or that they are destroying "real representation", the worse part about it and the most transmisogynistic part about it is that by having a cis man play a trans woman, they are literally saying that trans women are just men impersonating women, aka men in dresses. A cis woman playing a trans woman would still be stealing the role from a trans woman, but it would be infinite times less offensive and less transmisogynistic then a cis man playing one, because it would still be a woman playing a woman. Also I'd love to see more trans women playing cis women.

re: stream announcement 

I think that went well. Technically I completed a speedrun. And no one else has yet bothered to do that category so technically world record.

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stream announcement 

twitch.tv/madewokherd Still playing Ultimate NES Remix. Hoping with fewer ILs in the spaced repetition system it'll be more interesting without being total chaos.

I just learned a cool git thing.

You can use git switch [revision] -C [branchname] to move a branch to a specific revision and check it out in a single operation. This works even if you currently have that branch checked out.

Unlike git reset, which can do something similar, this operation is safe. If you have uncommitted changes, it'll fail instead of clobbering them.

So at this point I'd always recommend using git restore and git switch instead of git checkout and git reset

everyone wants elder gods to worship, but nobody's willing to hire junior gods and train them.

spirituality 

Had the thought that maybe I should have compassion for inanimate objects too and not just living things and uh I guess I'm an animist now.

I should probably turn a fan on. doesn't, in order to test this hypothesis

The evidence fails to support the claim that homework is academically beneficial for students in any meaningful sense, as I showed in this chapter from my book The Homework Myth: www.alfiekohn.org/homework-improve-learning/.

Many HW defenders quickly pivot to claiming that it promotes self-discipline, responsibility, time management & study skills, etc. Yet over the last 20 years I've been unable to find a single study that supports this folk wisdom about HW's supposed nonacademic advantages.

Finally found the "stop nagging me to offer AI" button in Visual Studio

Xalia (project I've been working on for about 2 years) is now out there in stable Proton. github.com/ValveSoftware/Proto

This is an external program that adds gamepad controls to desktop apps (Linux, Windows, and Wine with some modifications in Proton). Currently only used for a few launchers, but hoping to expand this and have it usable in regular desktop environments.

stream announcement 

twitch.tv/madewokherd Still doing foot controls and flashcards. Playing Ultimate NES Remix and trying not to get overwhelmed with ILs.

State of the art anti-cheat techniques: Roblox detects if you have the string "x86dbg" in a window title (or window?), so kids are changing their display names and discord server names to x86dbg to get people kicked from Roblox.

If you do a search for this, links to big discussions on Roblox forums return "Sorry that page is private", so I guess that's their solution to the problem?

stream announcement 

twitch.tv/madewokherd Ubuntu upgrade borked desktop, new streaming setup on Manjaro. Playing Ultimate NES Remix.

linux geekery 

Yay, I just made a working PKGBUILD for github.com/Stary2001/InputClie

I'm not sure if I can submit it to AUR though because the author of that program didn't bother with a license.

spirituality 

"But what about <well-known suffering-causer>?" Hope that they learn better, or that their power is taken away from them. Hope that they do not suffer in turn, hope not for retribution. Know that the path they are on does not lead to happiness, and have sympathy for that.

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