Had a dream about society disabling me, only at the end I somehow was calm enough to start to explain: hey, I understand objectively this isn't a big deal but it's the result of a cascade of failures in navigating this whole system, which happens constantly because society isn't designed for me. you acted reasonably and it's not your fault but be aware that a lot of extra emotional weight from other events has been piled on top of this one thing for me @actuallyautistic