@safertohatethem so this is going to be random, but:
youtube:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4aIJZ2iC7g5qJpFBkBObQg (disability activism, queer stuff)
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG7MW_y7_Ji81De-onmDYzw (same)
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgWmE9fKxCABO2XXRyOkAqg (feminist/queer basics)
movies:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt3697270/ (bit annoying but cute lesbian teen thing)
https://www.ftwtf.net/ (trans guys & afab enbys talking about their lives)
@safertohatethem and then there's http://www.queerulantin.de/, a queer magazine. one of its issues is available as audio: http://www.queerulantin.de/?page_id=972
and books are hard, but some that i liked, ymmv:
http://zaglossus.eu/publikationen/alle/dorn
https://www.edition-assemblage.de/intertransexpress/
http://zaglossus.eu/publikationen/belletristik/keinmeer
http://www.suhrkamp.de/graphic-novel/olivia_vieweg/schwere-see_1311.html (ok that's a comic)
@maunzikation boy this is thorough. thank you a lot for the suggestions! I'll look into those
@safertohatethem and these 2 webcomics, in case that counts as reading (not fictional, mostly about the authors' lives):
https://comic.story-games.at/
http://bleistiftrebellx.tumblr.com/ (some english, some german)