my transition was extremely harsh and involved a lot of pain and came at a time i had no social circles to come out to. i never really got congratulated for it, in fact the few people i knew at the time demonized me until i meet new people well into transition already. it just kinda happened and now apparently i'm a trans elder at least in regards to hrt without even doing anything special
@mavica_again i have had trans people ask when i started hrt and then tell me how their “progress” compares to mine like it’s some kind of race. 🤷
(as if that’s even comparable, or that everyone has linear progress or goals, or …)
@UberKitten i've been on hrt for 8 years and all i got was this lousy t shirt
i would be lying if i said i didn't feel resentment towards everybody else posting how big their hurting titties are after only 8 weeks
i guess what i mean is i'm glad trans women now get to come out and be celebrated online but lol i'm envious that y'all are so socially and personally well resolved