how do you get started in kink/bdsm spaces if you don't know anybody? it seems like everybody publicly visible about kink is years-old established in it and there's no welcoming space for newbies who don't have the right connections. who do you go to if you need the hand-holding?
@mavica_again tbh I just sorta found folk with like, discord servers and followed folk on socials, shared some of my own stuff after a while
i'm not exactly like, a big name but it has let me get some comms and make some friends just sorta vibing and looking for folk into similar things at least
(disclaimer, i'm moreso involved in furry kink spaces than bdsm stuff but still)
@8bitdemongirl unfortunately that has never worked for anyone we know or ourselves. glad to hear you're having fun though!
