i'm so tired of removing myself from spaces because my abusers are there. where is left for me to go?
so many places i used to be active in i had to leave because these bullshit people decided they're above the rules and the people making the rules agreed with their behaviour. i am so sick of having to leave places because of them. that's also another reason why i started my own spaces.
maybe my spaces will never be communities. but at least they're safe for me.
i hate being abused by Prominent Internet People because it means that they are going to be everywhere active you could want to participate in and effectively kill your entire social life