i have written a post. it's long, entirely personal, and it makes me feel very vulnerable.

on socialization, social media and emotional maturity, or: how i learned to stop worrying and become the change i wanted to see in the world

maple.pet/blog/on-social-media

i feel like people don't take it seriously enough when i say that my life is online and think i'm just being cute

the internet was never a tool or a distraction for me

the internet is my home and my home is being taken over and destroyed

that is perhaps another blog post i should write

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I have a similar experience. I've taken a huge step back from any kind of mainstream platform, or even devices, and honestly my life's been better for it.

I engage more with mastodon than I've engaged with any kind of social community online in a long time. I've also started to get back into forums too.

I've taken to calling the non-social media internet the "outernet," and the vibes on this side are very reminiscent of the time when we were all weirdos and outcasts on here.

@mavica_again I think we need to draw a hard distinction between the mainstream internet and the outernet to have a healthy engagement with it again.

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@bibbs i've heard it as "small web" or "indie web" but it just doesn't feel like a really... contiguous thing to me?

not that i think the distinction is a bad thing just i don't feel it does much in the grand scheme of things

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