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The biggest problem was that she was taller than me and we were standing up so I had to borrow her platform shoes to position myself properly lmao. I will keep that in mind for next time.
I feel so empowered!! I'm a switch but like wow I've subbed every time I've had sex and I still struggle with it feeling right sometimes. Yet my first time domming, even though I'm not as skilled, felt just soooo right...
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I think it feels more natural because I don't like losing too much control. Even if I trust someone a lot i don't like it a lot of the time. I want to put in my own effort. I need room to move. I like to psychologically domme even when I'm subbing. Although I worry that when I domme ill do something wrong or be bad at it that anxiety is substantially less than the anxiety I can get from being too subby. Loss of control frightens me.