if you want to know...
@Guinevere@girlcock.club oh goodness, i don't wanna gossip, haha, and i also don't want to scare people away
but, if you really want to know - i'd say that the reality is that projects ran by cishet white guys are probably not going to have the frame of reference that lends themselves towards becoming safe spaces
less generally, gargron can sometimes be really narrow minded and reject community suggestions based on Programmer Logic without considering from a people based point of view