it's funny how my mood with affection kinda fluctuates between like, "i wanna hold you close and pet you softly" and "i wanna push you up against a wall and grind and kiss the heck out of you"

sometimes both (aggressive snuggling and intermittent smooching is a good compromise~)

and it just, depends partially on the person but also it's kinda just random? related to my fluctuating interest/aversion wrt sexual things though