kink safety
seriously tho, from your local health and safety domme, there are some kinks that just have to live in fantasy y'all. breathplay/choking may be very appealing, but it can go wrong so quickly, with brain cell death, stroke risk, etc. it's just got to be something you take off the table, the same way "cane/paddle strikes go on the butt, away from this area, always, because a kidney punch is not good play."
kink safety
it's not a moral issue for a lot of this stuff - i mean there are kinks where definitely, you can get into a moral quagmire, but i'm saying there's things where we just have to get off that train of thought at an earlier stop. it's sad and frustrating, but kink MUST be safe. IT MUST BE. it's okay for a kink to live only in fiction and in the mind's eye with the knowledge it's just too dangerous to do in real life.
