i do feel though like someone who is a bit more in the thick of it than me should maybe start talking about the intersection of gender expression/gender feeling and chronic pain/chronic fatigue/other #spoonie stuff.

because i do believe there's something there, and probably a something quite interesting to talk about!

it's just that as 'cishet except mildly less girl on very bad pain days', i'm not the best person to explore it. someone should do so, tho.