@PurrPurin so it's one of these things that probably sounds intimidating as all hell, but it can also be an opportunity to explore and have fun in different ways! and since it's a gradual change, your girlfriend can have fun learning and experiencing all of this with you.

so don't be terrified of it! it's not closing a door as much as it is opening up a world of new opportunities!

....hopefully that encouragement came across okay through my nyquil haze lol