@fefairys oh hey i may have a solution for you

also this is a very late reply because i saw this drift past on the fed timeline and then got distracted by.... i don't even remember what. but anyway

https://www.amazon.com/Ballet-Flats-Foldable-Shoes-Purse-Silver/dp/B07BK2FYWL consider a pair of these for stuffing into your purse! that way you can wear the pretty shoes, and then when you want to dance, pull out your ballet flats, dance with impunity, and then switch shoes again for going back home and everyone oohing about your fashion :D