trying to avoid the 💿 🐴, but a question of masto etiquette -
so pronouns listed in profile good, but should i remove mention of being cishet from my profile as well?
i know the idea of listing pronouns is to normalize that/make it easier on trans people, and listing my being cishet may be at cross-purposes with that. but i feel it's also kind of important to note so that i don't come across as like... a bullshit party crasher. i want to make sure i'm properly labelled so people can avoid me.
@InspectorCaracal yeah, but i also see how if i listed "she/her I'M CISHET" as my pronouns like, it would end up just doing fuckin nuffin. so i chucked token cishet joke in one spot and listed my pronouns on like... the listy part? and i'm hoping that's an okay compromise but i'm also not sure and now fretting needlessly, which i am also good at
@wigglytuffitout I think what you have is fine, anyway!
@wigglytuffitout I don't see how it would do nothing