aaaaaaa i actually got into the local fb group for lolita fashion!!!!! it turns out it was just facebook eating messages i'm so fucking relieved

not that i've done any wrong over there, just that i know an ex-hs friend who likes to talk mad shit and has no problem constructing elaborate lies was also active in said community some years ago (though idk how active), and i was starting to get Slightly Paranoid (tm)