@Kat@snouts.online oh, i know - does he have a guild? tbh having a bunch of guildies also helps a lot. hooking him up with a guild of friendly folks that will be like "oh yeah, i'll come run that with you" may help tons, but idk how social he's wanting to be. even if it's just one other person, it helps a lot. i know i returned to ffxiv basically because i had a group of friends yelling "red rover red rover come the fuck on over we're all disabled and don't give a fuck if you're loopy on pain meds" lol