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oh yeah forgot to change my bio to reflect changing dynamics, and Kara leaving Mastodon

so, uh, Chara's the main "front" now. yeah, Chara Dreemurr in charge

remember, @chara_dreemurr@plural.cafe, if you get out of line, I'll ask @MsToriel here to give you the side eye

I don't think you can withstand the Toriel side eye

ontario pol, - 

the city of Hamilton just banned all forms of protest, in response to ongoing issues with the cops arresting queer/trans activists who dare speak out against them

shits fucked yo

money, probably-permanent request for help, boosts welcome 

the only income we have is the little bit we get monthly on our patreon and from commissions. we are frequently in need for groceries, meds, doctor's appointments... shit comes up and pretty often we have to make a rushed request for help and it sucks.

patreon.com/Fidgetcetera to help us monthly, and paypal.me/fidgetcetera to help more immediately.

you can also contact us about commissions for art like we have on acey.eerie.garden/art/glitch and also feel free to grab our music on red-onyx-music.xyz/mx_ace_fuck for free and then paypal us to dodge bandcamp fees and still feel like you're supporting us by paying for our work

also ppl can always DM for the personal paypal which takes less fees!

It's wonderful seeing so many people getting into Evangelion / It's heartbreaking seeing so many people have Wrong Opinions about Evangelion

As I mentioned briefly last night, I have a new book out!

The Princess, Her Dragon, and Their Prince: a standalone polyamorous romance

When a dragon conquers her kingdom, Princess Cherish knows who she can turn to for help:

Another dragon.

But will her parents accept this savior? And what of her friend, Prince Eclipse?

books2read.com/princessdragonp

I wanna like plastic ware more than I do. it tends to get scratched up too easy, though

the "polymethylpentene" stuff is nice when it's brand new but it doesn't stay nice for as long as it should

wonder if they have anything better these days

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got another of the things I ordered a while back, a low-powered centrifuge. like, for larger cones, not the microcones. I'm gonna have to get a separate instrument for that at some point but for now I want the kind of thing that you can do qualitative analysis with.

oh bluh I should probably get something other than the polypropylene cones. they're milky so they'll partly obscure what's inside. like, I should get some water-clear ones

guys I just signed up for student loans y'all gotta help me find some way to destroy the current economic system by 2023 so I walk free of this shit because otherwise idk if I ever will

@chara_dreemurr if it was as easy as popping off home to the underground I'd just stay and make the department of education eat spear if they try to drag me back FUCK america and capitalism the only legitimate state is the kingdom of monsters

and now a grumbly subtoot before i go put my grumpy ass to bed 

"well i tooooold you guys the nazis would figure out how to undo it so we shouldn't even botheerrrrrr"

sometimes the act of being seen to even make a fucking miniscule effort to state you are no friend of nazis is important, even in open-source software, you fucking fossbro idiots, which is something you all might realize if you stop assuming every single person has the same technological expertise that you do

nsfw furry art, old shark design 

this is technically her old design, but this piece of Annika is almost what i'm going for with her new one hhhh

( 🎨: luxatile )

#TransCrowdFund / surgery fund update 

https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-briar-rose-get-gender-affirming-surgery&rcid=r01-156242862895-0ee7d9f17da24432&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_w

The other day I passed out on the side of the road. I think it was due to stress. All of a sudden everything was blurry and fading, and then I was unconscious.

Last night I dreamed I got a letter that someone was going to pay for my surgery, but I realized (in the dream) that it wasn't real.

I have less than two weeks left before my operation. I'm going to go forward with it either way. Right now, I struggle for food security and to pay my bills and rent. So, I'm not sure how this will work out, but it has to. It just has to.

Gab; Nazis; blocking people; suicide mention 

What people don't seem to get is that blocking nazis is literally a way of protecting lives. If you've never been driven to near suicide from online harassment, you probably don't understand that. It's not about "not wanting to hear opinions you disagree with."

And if you think what nazis believe is "just an opinion" then you're no ally of mine.

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Gab; Nazis; blocking people 

Fair warning: if you're going to tell me I should let the nazis in and debate them to defeat them, my first instinct will be that you are also a nazi...because that is and has always been their first step. And I'm not afraid or ashamed to block anyone I think might be a nazi, because guess what: me choosing to ignore you isn't 'censorship'; you are not entitled to my time or my ears.

Don't πŸ‘ Platform πŸ‘ And Debate πŸ‘ Nazis

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on receiving and soliciting feedback (snarky, 531 words) re: code of conduct consulting re: fosstodon moderation update (-, 235 words) 

@codesections @mxsparks @lawremipsum Let me get this straight.

You want my input, because you as community managers want to be responsive to the needs of the communities your actions impact ... but you have nothing to say in response to the hundreds of words I have posted about the thing that you are doing.

Now, I wasn't talking to you and I didn't expect you to care about anything I had to say, but if you are going to reply to a post about you to ask the poster for feedback, it doesn't say good things about your sincerity to ignore /the feedback in that post./ It makes you sound more like someone ticking off a box than someone reckoning with what people have to say. It makes you sound like someone putting up a front of reasonableness rather than someone who wants to learn.

Which, honestly, is why I wasn't talking to you. Is why I was talking to everyone who isn't you, in fact, both so they have a better idea what to expect from you based on your past actions and so they - who have no ego tied up in the matter - can think to themselves, "geeze, I don't want to screw up the way they are screwing up" and not screw up the way you are screwing up.

I'm not even talking to you now, replying directly to your post. I think it's possible you're listening, which is why I have tried to be polite and share useful information - after all, it's important to me that people have the chance to become better people, whether or not they take that chance - but as I have explained, I don't expect you to care what I type here. Preserving your own self-image as someone who listens to people who criticize them doesn't require you to process any of these words, and processing these words would mean eating a /lot/ of crow - and honestly, no one moment causes the kind of comprehensive change in worldview that I would expect you to /need/ to truly deal with what you've already been told.

If I knew you or had some position of authority over you, it would be different. For that matter, if I knew you or had a position of authority over you, this would be a direct message, because people are better at receiving hard-to-hear feedback in private, without an audience. Changing your mind in public feels humiliating - even when (as in this case) it would garner you far more respect than it would lose you - so if I thought I had some power to change your minds, I would speak in private to you.

But I'm just a stranger on the internet. And you've already shown that you don't care.

So ... good luck? I don't think you're going to succeed and I'm not interested in giving you feedback that you won't listen to, but I've been proven wrong before. And if you read this far, thank you for your time.

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