@storm@queer.party I've become consciously aware in the past couple years that I don't have any actual attachment to my gender, but conveying myself as a cis male makes my life easier. In my polyamorous network, this makes me one of the only cis presenting people, and also de facto diplomat as a familiar point of reference to interact with for cis people. I've been trying to decide for a while whether I'm okay with this in the long term or if I would prefer to begin expressing myself as more outwardly queer