at some point @Chel and i will no longer have the same avatar

i feel like our current situation mistakenly implies a frightening lack of self identity

in reality, i just didn't want to recycle avatars from the last fandom i was in, didn't want some random anime girl because bad connotations, and was too cheap up until recently to commission anything

the end result.. i wonder how many casual observers have gotten us both confused with the other and what the impact on everyone's sanity has been