i want to make an xmpp account, any recommendations on what server i should use?
@DarkWitchClaire Otherwise you can start with a Conversations account https://account.conversations.im/
and then later change it to your own domain https://account.conversations.im/domain/
@DarkWitchClaire i remember people having weird issues with lightwitch
@DarkWitchClaire the weird antispim that you have to do every time before talking to someone
@SamanthaCayne you mean spam? not sure what antispim is
@DarkWitchClaire they call it antispim yes its for spam
@DarkWitchClaire Want to self host it? https://xmpp.org/software/servers.html