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relationship shitpost 

@mavica i'm a simple girl, i want a girlfriend but don't know how to flirt

Fundraising, Legal Name & Gender Change, please boost :trans: 

ko-fi.com/glitterdisaster

Hi I'm Bea and I'm working towards updating all my IDs!

This is long overdue for me (been on HRT for about 5 years now) but my circumstances have kept me from pursuing this until now

I'm both a US citizen and Canadian resident so it's a particularly arduous process. My goal for this is to raise $450.

Getting help with this would mean the world to me :trans:

breakdown of expenses below, boosts appreciated

still thinking about software and abuse patterns 

...it's expected, as a design best practice, that designers should seek to control the users' actions. It's expected that designers will pick out the things they want the users to do - connect Facebook accounts, enter phone numbers, buy microtransaction currencies, et cetera and so on - and make it easy to do those things and difficult to avoid doing those things. It's likewise expected that designers will pick out things they want the users not to do - block ads, delete their account, close the standalone app outright instead of just shrinking to taskbar - and make those things difficult to do.

And "easy" and "difficult" here mean operationally but also /emotionally/. Pleading, guilt-tripping, badgering, pestering, misleading ... if the designer wants it, the designer can do anything that isn't blatantly illegal to try to get it out of the user.

That's abuser logic.

That's an abuser thought process and it produces abusive behavior.

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