claire, lesbnyans~ 💜⚸ @DarkWitchClaire@computerfairi.es

It is perfectly okay to be unsure about your identity but also feel uncomfortable with the identity you've been given

"I don't know what I am but this is not it" is an acceptable way of thinking about it. You should probably explore options and figure it out, if you want, for your own sake, but it's not required

You can just have several names

You can tell different people to address you differently and all of those are "your name"

It's allowed

hm, misgendering someone is surprisingly similar to physically walking into someone

if you do it accidentally, you apologize, feel a bit awkward for a second, correct yourself and move on

if you do it repeatedly, forcefully, on purpose, you're being a violent asshole