I think everyone should take time out to question their gender and actively make that choice. Yes, even cis people. IMO, actively choosing the be cis should be encouraged, rather than just seen as the default.
plural stuff, question, boosts welcome
So, to other plural systems. How do you communicate?
Do you have dialogues?
Is it different thoughts that are not your own?
Do head mates have their own voice (as in sound different)?
Do all head mates have the same voice?
Is communication always vocal?
Just having lots of impostor syndrome around the topic, so yeah.
money request, financial issues, birthday
my boyfriend has been struggling to make rent and groceries for a while now, bc of the debt that was unfairly pushed on him by the state of washington when they /retroactively/ denied him unemployment benefits
but today it's his birthday, so it would make me especially happy if he got to feel a little safer and more stable today. if you can help at all with a kofi or two, it'd mean the world to me<3
lush/terf controversy
Lush admits giving grant to anti-trans pressure group Woman's Place UK
https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2020/12/01/lush-anti-trans-group-womans-place-uk-grant-charity-pot-transphobia-backlash/
don't buy xmas gifts from lush
the #ASL word for "trans" is the same morpheme as "beautiful" but signed over your heart, where you'd sign self ๐ญ
(image/caption: via carodoodles on birdsite: https://twitter.com/carodoodles/status/1112803368819478529 )
reading an article from the economist and
> Tools that Silicon Valley has produced, such as email, video conferencing and messaging, make it possible to work remotely, which will help more companies expand in less expensive states.
damn, didn't know that ARPANET (email), Luxembourg (Skype), and Israel (ICQ) were part of Silicon Valley now
out: scenes where it's revealed that a character is trans because someone else walked in on them changing by accident
in: scenes where it's revealed that a character is trans because their hormones are on the table or they have "pick up HRT" on their calendar or something so the character clearly has some agency about whether or not they want to be out
also in: scenes where it's revealed that a character is trans because they say it
20s | trans girl | useless lesbian | retro game and tech enthusiast | cat witch
plural/median system along with neilyn and unit 4-7L/Iris (see reply to pinned intro)
posts using singular language refer to claire unless signed
in lesbnyans with @Lenalia ๐
follow requests ok
also on irc, xmpp, and escargot (msn), ask if we know you
private alt and after dark accounts: ask if we know you