Okay please don't crossboost ^^ my toots over to the birdsite.
I will try to think of tooting more private that public toots but I just don't want this to happen all the time now.
I am here for a reason and I am finally able to feel free to write more stuff again. This is not working, when I have to be afraid that every toot could be boosted to birdsite. Nope nope nope
Okay so this is really bad because I have no influence at all on people using crossposter tools. When this is going to be the new default I might just go completely private again.
I can't even SEE if my toots get shared over there.
You can always say mastodon is not private but it's different when making things from here public on birdsite is automated
Just... please only crosspost your own posts at both ends?