musing about reply counters etc. feel free to ignore this
I can just... make my toot. fav everyone else's toots. it doesn't matter. There's no counters. If I get replies, I see them in my notifs bar. I still have favs and boosts turned on in that bar, but it's impossible without actual effort I'm not willing to expend to count them accurately, so... I don't have to feel like I have ot perform. I can just... be myself.