my gender is a minus world from metroid 2

i said this on hellbird as a semi-joke response but honestly the more i think about it the more I realise I'm not certain WHAT i am.

I'm definitely not male. that's 100% sure. "woman" doesn't fit right either??...

I mean I'm definitely femme, rather than masculine, as much as I don't really look it. I'd love to look less masculine.

So... what am I?

@Nine ur sknq!