Doing that thing where I question my gender again, that's always fun :(

Gender, help please 

Okay, so, trans girls, what made you realize you were a girl? Like, not what made you start questioning, what happened in your life that made you confident enough to say "I'm a girl” without 2nd guessing yourself? Because I think I'm non-binary but I'll be honest I don't think that's working any more.

I know I specifically asked trans girls for help, but, literally any gender can help me with this, you all have unique insight into this, I just felt trans men would have a much different experience, and I might be in denial about being non-binary, so, any help is appreciated, thanks

And thanks again to everyone who's helped me out already, you've given me a lot to think about and answered loads of my questions

Thank you so so much to the simply amazing trans people helping me out and offering their experience. I'm still not sure how I feel, but you've helped me realize that's okay and that these things take time.

I'm going to be experimenting with she/her pronouns and identifying as a girl, but this is subject to change and that's a perfectly valid and okay thing.

This is a scary part of my life, but I'm glad that so many people are offering help and support by telling me their experiences with gender and letting me ask questions.

Thank you for your help and understanding

  • Iva (Ivy) Fakename
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