@heatherhorns ...granted so was me realising I was a) not cis and b) why my previous sonas never felt like they fi.
...honestly it was like a triple fuckin' whammy of realisations all at once =w=;;
Granted I started on Mastodon shortly after these last two, the realisation about how bad my ADHD really was, was... uh... VERY shortly after that though.