I'm still really hopeful that there are some furry, non-ERP roleplay places without a strict setting that aren't science fiction focused (and aren't violent) somewhere. Heck, I'd probably take a non-furry one if it existed as long as they were treated well.
Alternatively I wish I got more help at learning how to do things and getting more involved instead of just being told that the only way to do things is just to figure things out entirely on my own.
