I figured it's time I reshare this link to a journal that gave me pause to consider my own language and presentation within the fandom and how I could be more respectful and considerate. It's why I now use #altersex to identify my OCs of different plumbing.
@Taris I can get behind this. That's something I ran into myself in trying to figure out how to describe my own fursona without using slurs or it sounding awkward.