kink mention?
As an ace person, it actually kind of bothers me when I see people joke about completely clean stuff like holding hands as being a very taboo kink, because for me those sorts of things are the tools I've got left for expressing affection, so they're very important to me and I don't appreciate them being a punchline.
But that could also just be me needing to loosen up.
kink mention?
@NovaSquirrel You feel how you feel and it's valid to express it~!
re: kink mention?
@NovaSquirrel Totally valid! And holding hands, you do the hand holding and let nobody stop you!
kink mention?
@NovaSquirrel Maybe loosen a touch? But at the same time I get where you're coming from. I can't claim to be ace but I still want to hold hands and cuddle with someone far more than I want sexys.