This experience gets more hilarious the less your identity is in the public eye. Introduce yourself as a lesbian? Most people nowadays will nod along. A nonbinary lesbian? Depending on who it is they might have a few questions.
If I come out of the gate with "plural genderqueer non-op pansexual-lesbian furry witch," I get the IMMENSE pleasure of hearing the dial-up noise playing on loop as the rando goes on a brain spelunking trip to figure out what the fuck I just said