@AutisticAdam @actuallyautistic if you ask me: how are you? Be prepared for an honest answer 😂
@Uniflame @AutisticAdam @actuallyautistic
As an answer to a ritual “How are you?”…
“Not bad.” is honest.
A detailed infodump is selfish.
Yes, the infodump is what comes to your mind first. But my advice is to learn to resist the impulse to overshare. At least check in first: “Do you really want to know the answer to that?” or “Oh man, it’s been rough (or awesome or whatever)” and wait for an explicit signal like “Do tell!” before going on.
"A detailed infodump is selfish."
It's possible this is just me, and I read this at the wrong time, but...
Calling it selfish seems more than a little judgmental and negative. One of those words that leads to after-the-fact self-flagellation because we did it wrong, not the way NTs do it, we're terrible, awful people. That seems unnecessary.
And now you're doubling down. Yeah, that pretty much tells me who you are.
K thankx bye.