ac1dburn @ac1dburn@computerfairi.es

"this word means this!" is not a description of your experiences, it's an assertion. if other people have seen it used a different way, that's not denying your lived experience, that's sharing their own as a counterexample.

for fuck's sake y'all, your experiences are not universal, and other people having different experiences does not invalidate yours.

@Lioness i don't know if there's a way to increase your recharge rate for the type of work that you are doing / energy which has been lost

but what i AM able to do (to stave off the depression, which will otherwise slow everything down) is engage myself in other activities (maybe after a day of rest) which use different kinds of energy (not the emotional kind which is drained)

this might be playing games or watching anime, it might be listening to light music, it might be going someplace (which if you have the ability to just like, go to a coffeeshop and chill, i recommend it), it probably involves a lot of sitting and staring off into space with a coffee or tea

the idea is just to stay vertical so that your mind+body doesn't completely shut down while waiting for the parts of you that are drained to recover

then when they DO come back you can jump right back into what you were doing instead of having to build up stamina all over again

hmm i gotta get more fountain pens i think

in the mood to hug a dragon

Happy #SnowLeopardDay , folks! It's a special day for us sneps~! <3 ^w^

Because I think this one is undershared.

good: using y'all to refer to a group of people

better: using y'all to refer to a plural system

best: using all y'all to refer to several plural aystems

someone on twitter (@HECKSCAPER) made a redesigned polyamorous flag and it looks so much better than the current one

also her website is amazing https://heckscaper.com

henlo tag urselves

headmates holding hands & supporting each other

w....what if....

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we...touched tails?

**i have updated this post with the developer’s correct name** Hey just found out about this cool app called Emergency Chat! It’s on App Store and google play, and is made specifically for when you’ve gone into a nonverbal anxiety attack. It was made by Seph “Persephone” De Busser, an autistic computer science student. You just open it, hand someone your phone, it shows this cool message and then you can communicate via the chat. It’s like texting kinda but you’re both on the same phone. Super handy, right? You can even customize the alert message. Download it if you think it’d be helpful 😊

There's no "right way" to be plural, or trans, or kin. Sometimes what you do looks very similar to what other people do. Sometimes it's entirely different. Sometimes it changes over time

Emulating what you see to decide what parts work, forging your own path, and adapting as you go are all commendable ways of discovering your interpretation