@alexcox my experience in Arizona is admittedly limited to what seems like a fairly affluent corner in the northeast of Tucson, but I’ve been roaming around being very visibly trans in a condo complex full of elderly snowbirds I had presumed to be at least 50% bigots, and no one as so much as scowled at me. I’ve been welcomed to the hot tub in my 2-piece swimsuit and treated as a neighbour. Your mileage may vary, but I’ve been experiencing this yearly since 2015 and it’s lovely.