question for nb folks (boosting is ok)
do you feel that the word "trans" applies comfortably to you? if not, are there other people who identify as NB that you mentally consider to fit that label?
i don't necessarily mean in a self-gatekeeping way or anything, but the conflation of those two terms seems to vary from person to person
i've been sort of iffy about where i fit into the whole "cis"/"trans" dichotomy but i've also still felt aimless about pretty much everything about the NB identity
question for nb folks (boosting is ok)
@revenant Personally I do not claim the word "trans" and I often ask people not to use it for me, but I know other nonbinary people who do like and use it. I think it's an individual thing, there's no one way to be nb. Rather than saying either trans or nb I usually just say "queer" and then avoid pronouns and people get the idea
question for nb folks (boosting is ok)
@revenant also a while back I posed this question to my twitter audience and here are the results if you're interested:
https://twitter.com/atinyfairy/status/934946054361047040
