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promo 

hi! i think i finished the updates to my website now. let me know you if think there's any other cool things i do i didn't mention there
maple.pet/

i've also set up a patreon page. i'm not currently struggling for cash though! there are many other awesome people out there who could use your money more than me. but if you'd like to help anyway, here it is
patreon.com/maple_syrup

you can also help throuh ko-fi or buying my albums
ko-fi.com/squirrel
bandcamp.mynameiser.in/

kind of a take 

we can support each other
we can speak affectionately with each other
we can cheer each other up when we're down
we can send each other cute art
we can each tell the other that they look great

it don't gotta be flirting
it don't gotta be crushes
it don't gotta be attraction
it don't gotta be dating
it don't gotta be similar to dating

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kind of a take 

sometimes in social spaces that are very queer and very polyamorous, all affection can get treated as flirting, any closeness as dating or on the way to it, etc. it can be treated as an assumption that we all wanna cuddle and kiss and maybe fuck all our good friends

but it's rly important imo to leave space for deep, dear, loving platonic friendships
even if we're non-monogamous and orientations work out such that we theoretically could all be dating/fucking each other

I make one post to that account and like three people DM me to say they wanna kiss me it's unreal how did this happen

endings 

breakups are hard even if they're amicable

anyway as always a reminder:

if you are feeling overwhelmed or unhappy with the timeline?

it's ok to mute.

it's ok to block.

it's ok to close the tab and go do something else.

don't feel obligated to read it. you're free.

bad feelings 

It feels like I don't have any space to hide and cry because too many people are counting on me to be strong and responsible and to do everything. I have to drive everyone everywhere and do all the cooking and the cleaning and laundry and do my job and manage the budget and manage my partner's mental illness and run everything and never ever have a bad day
It's impossible

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bad feelings 

A lot of things have not been going very well lately. Aside from the recent death of War, which absolutely devastated my roommate, there's the mountain of medical bills and constant doctor visits for my partner, the lost package I sent my good friend, my other partner's living and financial situation, my mostly nonexistent relationship with my other other partner, stress from all the rush jobs at work, and all my other responsibilities…
I can't handle it.

animal death 

Creampuff War, one of our rats, passed away this morning.

She was sick, so we gave her some extra attention last night. We gave her a nice warm place to rest with a steamy water cup nearby to add some humidity. We gave her some snacks (but she didn't want to eat anything). We made plans to call the vet in the morning.

She was buried on the Griffy Lake Nature Preserve. She is survived by Pumpkin Pie Pestilence, Red Velvet Famine, Chocolate Chip Cookie Death, and Abaddon Éclair.

I made a new friend today! She's very nice and fun to talk to and I hope we stay friends for a long time

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