So, I've been struggling for a while with whether I'm pan or ace, whether I'm aro, etc. Thanks to r/lgballt, I think I have a decent set of labels: nebulasexual/nebularomantic! These are for ND folks who can't figure out if they're experiencing sexual/romantic attraction, which pretty much describes me perfectly. Still don't have answers to what I opened with, but at least I have a label to say that.