@byttyrs I'm, like, Schrödinger's cuddler. You never know where I'm going to actually be on the graph until you actually try to cuddle with me, at which point we figure out both how warm I am and whether I want to cuddle or be cuddled.
gender memories (+)
Another interesting source of validation back then was when I started learning Dutch. One of the earliest sentences I figured out was "Ik ben een vrouw," "I am a woman." It was nice to be able to reaffirm that to myself without giving it away to others. (Incidentally, another sentence I figured out was "Ik ben een sinaasappel." I'll leave it to you to figure out what that one means.)
gender memories (+)
One of my earliest sources of validation was playing Kahoot in my spanish class 11th grade year. I'd always put in my name as "KitTheKitsune" (this was back while I was thinking of going with Kit as my name). It was always nice. Eventually, iirc, I started dropping "TheKitsune" and just putting my name as Kit. It was really really nice. Mind you, this was after my teacher emphatically declared we had to use our "real name". She never really cared about me doing this, though.
@iliana There is a (cis) man out there (legally!) named Metta World Peace. People will find a way to be named weird things. Don't punish us trans people for cis people's stupidity. (Not to say Metta's name is stupid. I, for one, honestly kinda like it.)
Friend: Sends me "humorous" article on programming
Me: Sends back a not-insignificantly long chunk of analysis of said article, probably looking way too deep into it
I'm honestly not sure whether or not this is something my friend expected. Like, I wanna say he just expected a "lol" or something. Maybe no response. But, then, we've know each other long enough that he may have very well expected overly in-depth analysis. I have no clue.
Anyways, there's a glimpse of my life 
https://www.evilhat.com/home/thirsty-sword-lesbians/
thirsty sword lesbians, playtest ttrpg. self-explanatory. most of you are interested.
science, pol, (not so) hot take
The replication crisis is a problem of capitalism. The need to earn grants and to publish "ground-breaking" research lest you lose your job means that no one really gets to focus on making sure all that older stuff gets published. You're better off trying to show some cool new fact than to replicate (or fail to replicate) something done 20 years ago.
@Sapphicgiraffic@snouts.online Depending on how well you remember it, you might try looking over this: https://learnxinyminutes.com/docs/python3/
It's not really a proper tutorial or anything like that, but it walks through all the python 3 syntax which might jog your memory. (There's also a python 2.7 one if you need that instead.) It's also got some tutorial resources at the bottom which might be helpful.
@mavica Wow, and I thought it was bad because it was a JS-laden RAM nightmare. Turns out it's far worse than I thought. Huh.
If you need a(n actual) reason to buy me pizza, I discharged from IOP today! Successfully! I still need help, but I'm *much* better now!
Chronic pain / pain meds / things not to say
If someone mentions their chronic pain, please don’t say ‘have you taken painkillers?’
Because
A. We have. We’re still in pain.
B. We haven’t but can’t rn for some reason.
C. We can’t take painkillers.
Unless you know someone very well and that they appreciate being reminded it’s an option it’s kinda not a good thing to ask.
Phlebotomist. Cyberwitch. Artist. Fighter. Accidental breaker of computers.
Genderfluid enby. Pansexual/-romantic. Kitsune-kin (9-tailed)/Incubus-kin. Plural, with a bunch of headmates.
DAMNED PROUD ANTIFASCIST and an anarchocommunist.
Be warned: In theory, I post both lewd/NSFW and incredibly personal stuff.
(In practice, it's been a while, but who knows?)